Wishing a very happy Mother’s Day to all of the mamas out there! To those of you who honoured me by having me at your births, I’m thinking about you in particular today. It is truly a privilege to be present at the moment when a child is born and a woman becomes a mother, whether for the first, second or eighth time.
I hope that you’re all being spoiled today and that you’re being reminded of the value and importance of the work that you do every day.
To my own mom, I miss you every day. Thank you for being the inspiration behind the work that I do. I love you.
Happy Family Day to all of my fellow Ontarians! I hope that you all get to enjoy spending time with your families today – whether they are your blood relatives, a family-of-choice or something in between!
“Life’s most urgent question is, what are you doing for others?”
This is a great little post on the beauty and benefits of nursing toddlers. Following up on the controversial Time magazine cover, this article provides an excellent overview of why some moms choose to let their babies self-wean, and why we shouldn’t judge them for it. Breastfeeding duration is a personal choice and it’s nobody’s business but your own one way or the other. I hate to think that we may be letting fabricated or sensationalized notions of “mommy wars” get in the way of advocating for real support for real moms who are making individual choices based on what’s best for them, their babies and existing evidence. Ensuring that all women have access to the resources they need in order to make informed decisions and then making sure that they are supported in those decisions (whatever they may be) by their healthcare practitioners, their partners, their families, their employers and their peers is fundamental. You don’t have to approve of everyone else’s choices, it’s ok to admit it when something makes you uncomfortable. Everyone feels that way about something, sooner or later. Just because something makes you feel uncomfortable though, that doesn’t make it wrong, it just makes it wrong for you.
While writing this, I got a little stuck on how I wanted to wrap up. I popped over to another tab to read an interview with Jamie Lynn Grumet, the woman on theTime cover in question, and her final statement expresses exactly what I wanted to say, so I’m going to let her do it for me:
“There seems to be a war going on between conventional parenting and attachment parenting, and that’s what I want to avoid. I want everyone to be encouraging. We’re not on opposing teams. We all need to be encouraging to each other, and I don’t think we’re doing a very good job at that.”